More About Me- Healing The Mother Wound

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My Journey

I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse, having endured a childhood shaped by emotional control and manipulation. My father left when I was seven, starting another family nearby and excluding us from his life, which deepened my feelings of worthlessness. My mother’s covert narcissism influenced my life well into adulthood. Unaware of the impact, I grew up believing I was to blame, internalizing shame, anger, and a deep sense of unworthiness. This cycle began long before I was even born, affecting every relationship and aspect of my life, trapping me in an invisible cage.

In my 40s, I found the courage to begin unravelling the patterns that had defined my life, setting out on a journey of healing that I believe is ever-evolving. This process led me to see the truth: there was nothing inherently wrong with me. The realization was powerful yet unsettling, as it meant facing the years of control, manipulation, and projected blame that had held me captive. My journey took me deep into the shadows of my own mind, revealing the generational wounds that had woven their way through my family for decades. I came to understand that my mother’s inability to show love or provide emotional safety, along with my father’s inability to fight for us to be part of his family, were reflections of their own unhealed pain, not a measure of my worth or value.

Throughout this decade of healing, I’ve worked to transform layers of inherited trauma, shame, low self- worth and deep fear. With each step, I’ve gained strength, clarity, and a renewed sense of self. The journey has not been easy, but I’ve emerged whole and free, empowered to live on my own terms and break the cycle for future generations, including my daughter. This process has transformed my perspective, allowing me to approach life with greater compassion, integrity, and peace.

Through this healing, I’ve also cultivated a profound sense of self-compassion and self-love, rediscovering parts of myself I’d long forgotten or silenced. This growth has empowered me to live with a strength and tenderness that I bring into my work with others.

Healing is possible. I am here as a living testament to that truth, ready to walk alongside you on your own journey to wholeness. Together, we can honour the healing power within, embrace self-compassion, and find the courage to transform. My purpose is to give a voice to the voiceless, to those who may feel silenced or unseen, offering hope and connection to all survivors of abuse who seek healing and freedom

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